For whom we make the memories

I've got total recall, (and if I can't actually remember it, I can make it up; a little humor...  For the most part, I remember it.)  My former husband and my daughter don't have this ability.  My husband once lost an entire day.  We were mid 20s then, in the peak of health, and he just flat out lost a day.  We had a rare and beautiful Austin Healy 3000 Mark 1, worth its weight in gold, built with British style, but typically the engineering sucked.  We were waiting for a part with great anticipation, delivered on that forgotten day.  Next night me and the hubby dined with his parents and hubby had no recollection of the car part being delivered.  It was just another day for him screwing in screws at his short lived job at the Terry Trailer Plant in LaGrande Oregon.  It was disconcerting to realize that he honestly had no recollection of a day in his life.  On the next day...

Fast forward ten years and we've got a little girl, for whom I delighted in organizing fun events.   My girl has no recollection of preschool Christmas ornament decorating parties with her buddies sprinkling buckets of glitter on Elmer Glued pipe cleaners.  It happened though.  I shot photos.  She has no remembrance of a Sundae ice cream bar, six flavors and multiple toppings on our front lawn with a horde of neighbor kids creating their Sundae desires. I do though.  My point:  this was totally for me.  The enjoyment of those kids was the reward.

Why I'm thinking about this now?  My grandson Henry.  I'm taking him fishing at the mill pond. 

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